tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post4454429788710802258..comments2023-04-27T04:30:40.440-05:00Comments on Digging Out of Distraction: Hair, Glorious Hair: What Kind of Do Attracts You?Christinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-74034515538186369242011-03-10T06:22:16.189-06:002011-03-10T06:22:16.189-06:00Hi Kathy: I love spunky heroines and you're ri...Hi Kathy: I love spunky heroines and you're right--they are often red heads!! I love to collage my people and have a visual connection to them. Sounds like your process is similar to mine but more in depth. I think world building is very important in all genres. <br /><br />Your heroes sound delicious.<br /><br />:-)Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-58232299061726657522011-03-09T18:28:22.623-06:002011-03-09T18:28:22.623-06:00Then again, a red-head will most assuredly be the ...Then again, a red-head will most assuredly be the spunky heroine that will keep the hero on his toes. The more Irish or Scottish the better. LOL!Katherine Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14701961380138616355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-90691102283157251602011-03-09T18:24:44.175-06:002011-03-09T18:24:44.175-06:00Oh! Great topic! My heroes and heroines comes fu...Oh! Great topic! My heroes and heroines comes fully formed. I know what they look like and must find a photo of someone with that character's characteristics. Hair, jawline, brow, nose, eye set and color, already formed. Height, weight, etc... I'm lucky that my characters know what they look like and tell me. What I have to wait on often enough is their personalities. I know what they are about and why, but sometimes I have to wait a bit to find out their eccentricities.<br /><br />Since I write historicals, everything is important to setting the mood and foundation of the book. If I was to write a contemporary, I guess I would go about this the same way because that is my process.<br /><br />I would encourage you to remember that a story is only as good as its characters and how they interact. If you are handling their interactions well, the rest will come. Sounds like you're doing a fab job, Christine!<br /><br />I do like Alpha males with an edge, straddling the line of good vs evil, while juggling a lot of honor, loyalty and angst. These heroes beg for the perfect heroine and she usually comes packaged to do her worst and make the hero rise to the occasion. ;)Katherine Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14701961380138616355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-61698830125301543922011-03-09T05:35:07.130-06:002011-03-09T05:35:07.130-06:00Hi Lexi: You have a smorgasbord of hair colors! Lo...Hi Lexi: You have a smorgasbord of hair colors! Love that and can't wait to read about all your characters after your first novel debuts. Woot! I'm sure your process works :-)Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-34280514431513950192011-03-08T20:39:25.294-06:002011-03-08T20:39:25.294-06:00I'm all over the place with hair color for my ...I'm all over the place with hair color for my characters, maybe because I've been every color in the rainbow but black! I'm working on my fourth book and so far I have two brunettes, a blond and a redhead--heroines, that is. As for my guys, two with dark hair, one blond and one redhead. I just try to figure out what works for each character. Time will tell whether my process works!Lexihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12732707316352740556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-68595092976172895942011-03-08T11:11:43.529-06:002011-03-08T11:11:43.529-06:00Gwen: I don't know if I'll be able to advi...Gwen: I don't know if I'll be able to advise you well regarding the red carpet stuff. I do like to read the tabloid magazines for that kind of info. And googling the stars helps. Your heroine sounds very interesting.<br /><br />I can imagine it's hard to be the whitest lass in the room when all the others are so super tanned in CA and AZ!!! <br /><br />I'm a dark blond so I don't have the light eyebrows and lashes. And I'm a cheater blond. I'm L'Oreal 9 1/2 Cool Blonde LOL. <br /><br />My daughter had super light eyebrows when she was a little girl. I drew them on her when she was 3 so she could be more like Belle in her Halloween costume. She looked so cute. <br /><br />Now she has brows, but they're a bit lighter than mine.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-30293680489156368502011-03-08T11:09:02.941-06:002011-03-08T11:09:02.941-06:00Hi Jean: Your new hero sounds delicious. I love a ...Hi Jean: Your new hero sounds delicious. I love a man with curl in his hair. A little wild beneath the surface of his straight laced persona is very interesting indeed. I bet the heroine is quite attracted to him :-)<br /><br />I collage as well. I love having visuals of my peeps to keep me focused. I have a collage book for the series I was working on. I like using MENS HEALTH for the men. Very attractive, scantily clad men in that magazine.<br /><br />And I find it interesting that you model your girls after their dads and the boys after their moms. I tend to do a blend. <br /><br />Thanks for sharing!Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-39929316653802423682011-03-08T11:06:07.454-06:002011-03-08T11:06:07.454-06:00Hi Anne: I had a friend who went prematurely white...Hi Anne: I had a friend who went prematurely white haired as well. Wow. That's so rare. I think it is genetic. I think it is super interesting that people responded to you differently based on your hair color. And red heads are often portrayed as wild hellions. So true! I'm a blond to the core. I am smart, but I'm super forgetful and absent minded so people think I'm ditzy. I don't mind too much. I let them think what they like while I quietly go about noodling my stories.<br /><br />And yes, you can use my copper penny description!<br /><br />:-)Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-29072100332015289982011-03-08T11:02:24.946-06:002011-03-08T11:02:24.946-06:00Hi Paula: Thanks for stopping in to see me on the ...Hi Paula: Thanks for stopping in to see me on the Veranda! I love that your heroines are gritty and real. That's awesome. It's funny how we tend to write to what we're comfortable writing--ourselves to a large degree, but I believe my heroines are much slimmer and younger LOL. Perhaps I should try a dark haired hero. Branching out might be fun!Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-12241317004109503312011-03-08T08:58:37.210-06:002011-03-08T08:58:37.210-06:00Interesting post. I often find that my image of th...Interesting post. I often find that my image of the character doesn't match the author's description. Once I have my own vision it doesn't matter what they say.<br /><br />If I know right off the bat that the woman is a pixie-sized redhead with spiky hair, that will probably stick in some way, though. ;-)<br /><br />For my own writing, I probably choose blonde women more often, but I've had several dark-haired heroines as well. My heroes often have short hair because they're military, but if it's long, there's always a little curl at the ends.<br /><br />A bigger problem than hair for me is clothing. Like you, I'm not a big shopper and have very little interest in fashion. I would really struggle to write a fashionable character.<br /><br />I'll have to get some advice soon, though. My current MS has a wealthy secondary character who is as comfortable on the red carpet as she is in a military uniform.<br /><br />As far as how it feels to be blonde, for me it just is. Because I'm so fair, I've always lamented a lack of visible eyebrows. And when I pull my hair back, I have no visible hairline. My face just fades back into my head. ;-)<br /><br />I can totally relate to Ellen's body issues too. I've been short and curvy/stocky my whole life. And pasty white no matter how hard I tried in my youth to get some color. (Living in AZ and CA did not help since everyone else was so tan!)<br /><br />Not sure any of that helps, but you got me thinking. =)Gwen Hernandezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01394401588845644494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-46945100097904426852011-03-08T08:08:14.953-06:002011-03-08T08:08:14.953-06:00Hair matters a lot to me, but I love a detail so e...Hair matters a lot to me, but I love a detail so eye color and the color of the sofa matter to. <br /><br />Our present hero is very straitlaced and buttoned up. His hair is dark and curly but he has it cut is layers so it lays flat. Yet, when he gets harried, he runs his hand through it and curls spring up all over his head. <br /><br />Stephanie prefers dark hair for heroes. I tend to prefer blonds. I also usually like hair a little longer than the norm. <br /><br />Though I would run screaming before I would storyboard, I do like pictures of my characters. I mostly cut them out of Vanity Fair because that about the only magazine I read. Sometimes the picture comes first. Sometimes I know what my character looks like and I have to go looking for apicture. The later is much harder.<br /><br />Stephanie and I have a lot children in our books. Finding pictures of them is hard. <br /><br />Off the subject but an oddity--I tend to make boy children look like their mothers and girl children look like their fathers. I don't know why.Alicia Hunter Pace (aka Jean Hovey and Stephanie Jones)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13844329805282121486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-92020368087290071232011-03-08T07:27:40.964-06:002011-03-08T07:27:40.964-06:00I was prematurely grey at 15 so I dyed it, probabl...I was prematurely grey at 15 so I dyed it, probably from my 20's until I had the Monster Child when I was 42. I've since let it go completely and am now all grey. <br /><br />When Miss Clairol and I got together we always went for shades of dark red, mahogany with a touch of cherry, deep brunette with auburn highlights. <br /><br />I have to say, people do treat you differently depending on hair color. When I was grey in my 20's (because sometimes you just have to let your hair 'rest') people assumed I had some kind of disease or affliction. When I was a redhead, they thought I was 'wild'. (Of which I may have had a fling or two but for the most part I was a preppie.)<br /><br />Blonds, unfortunately carry the stereotype, either that or they're 'fragile'. Redheads are wild and troublemakers. Sables are mysterious. (My BFF had jet black hair and almond shaped eyes and boy howdy the men drooled over her.) Brunettes are generally thought of as comfortable. <br /><br />Well, at least in my old neighborhood.<br /><br />In my stories I always try and have the villainess be a red-head. The hero always has to be in love with the woman whose hair color is the exact opposite of his.<br /><br />As for your descriptions, I think you nailed it perfectly, especially the copper penny. Mind if I use that one?Anne Gallagherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05816355522284492131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-16687862565404255782011-03-08T07:14:29.151-06:002011-03-08T07:14:29.151-06:00I'm a lifelong brunette, and I have to force m...I'm a lifelong brunette, and I have to force myself to write blond heroines, because I don't know much about being a blonde.<br /><br />And, perhaps not coincidentally, the two blondes I've written so far were both tortured heroines. LOL<br /><br />I do feel fairly comfortable with red-heads, perhaps because I have a red-head's complexion despite being dark-eyed and dark-haired.<br /><br />Because I write gritty romantic suspense, my heroines are usually pony-tailed, messy-haired or wear simple, utilitarian styles. They dress in tees, button-up work shirts or slacks, much like the heroes.<br /><br />And since I find dark-haired men far more attractive than blond-haired men, most of my heroes are dark-haired. They generally wear their hair cropped short (because a lot of them are military or former military).<br /><br />Perhaps I should branch out! LOL!Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06618247976093599287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-31898253035578936092011-03-08T06:42:51.948-06:002011-03-08T06:42:51.948-06:00I love your story, Ellen. This is exactly the kind...I love your story, Ellen. This is exactly the kind of thing that enriches our writing, too. I think if we go against our natural type, be it blond or brunette or red head, we aren't "ourselves" at all. I love all types. I'm a buxom blond of Dutch descent. My daughter is also a tall, buxom and voluptuous blond. We cheat now on the blond, but I don't know any other way to be. Yesterday we were in the doctor's office for my teen's annual visit. Dr. said my girl is beautiful. And then we talked about how the media really makes us want to aspire to what we are NOT. That's an interesting topic. We should blog about that, too. I wonder sometimes if our books, our romances, are perpetuating the idea of perfection, but then I always try to give my people a slight imperfection. They're not always the typically gorgeous people as portrayed by the media. <br /><br />Very wonderful comment! Thanks for sharing!Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383099148014297450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5523176879771875815.post-84729075878681076122011-03-08T03:11:56.560-06:002011-03-08T03:11:56.560-06:00I've been a brunette most of my life but I wen...I've been a brunette most of my life but I went blonde for six months when I was 16. My natural hair colour is like Jennifer Morrison's was when she was a brunette, and blonde didn't really suit me.<br /><br />I felt a little different as a blonde - mostly I didn't feel like ME. Growing up, I had dark hair, I was (and am) short, and my figure is best described as small hourglass. I'm also the whitest person ever apart from Kristen Stewart. <br /><br />And over here, the images of beauty I was bombarded with were of women who were tall, blonde, tanned, and surgically enhanced to combine maximum curviness with maximum skinniness. Even my best feature (I have brown eyes which is an uncommon thing in Ireland), which people told me were nice, didn't conform. They could be nice all they wanted, but they were supposed to be blue.<br /><br />I was in my late teens before I realised that some people actually think that little dark/pale girls are the best thing out there :)<br /><br />And when I went blonde, because I just HAD to try it, I didn't feel like me. I realised I had developed an odd affection for my non-confirming body and I didn't want to change it. I wanted society to change how they saw it. And when I saw women like, say, Jennifer Morrison considered sex symbols, even though I'm a feminist and don't think women should aspire to that, I still thought 'Cool!'<br /><br />Now if we could just start finding big women more beautiful, we'd really be getting somewhere!<br /><br />I guess being a brunette I felt that I didn't conform to what beauty should be. And when I started to meet people who actively preferred it (girls who wanted to dye their fair hair darker, men who preferred brunettes), it was a bit of a revelation! The media had got it wrong!<br /><br />Apologies for the ramble - if I had to summarise I'd say that as a brunette, I felt outside of what could be considered attractive, but as a blonde, I felt like I was in disguise. I felt like I had gone undercover to see how the other half lived.<br /><br />And I always got tons more attention as a brunette, probably because when I'm a brunette, I feel like me. I'd love to try going red sometime, but only if I could switch back at will, because I'm a brunette to the bone.Ellen Brickleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01184391430927483100noreply@blogger.com